When a loved one enters hospice care, we often find ourselves navigating uncharted territory. It’s a period marked by love and the deep desire to provide the best possible support for someone we care about. Yet, it can also be overwhelming, so how do you find the support you need during this challenging time?

From leaning on your inner circle, joining support groups, or engaging with professional services, there are tools and communities ready to uplift you. Finding support is not just an act of self-preservation; it’s vital for staying present and strong for those who need you most.

What is Hospice Care?

First, let’s understand the purpose and focus of hospice care. Hospice care is designed to provide comfort and dignity to those in the final stages of life. It strongly emphasizes managing pain, addressing emotional and spiritual needs, and creating a sense of peace for the patient and their families.

While hospice caregivers focus on the patient, families often find themselves central to the care process. This can be rewarding and challenging, which is why support systems are essential.

Lean on Friends and Family

It’s natural to want to be the primary support system for your loved one, but it’s equally important to remember that you don’t have to do it alone. Friends and family members can play a pivotal role in easing your burden. Whether it’s helping with meals, running errands, or simply sitting with your loved one to give you a break, don’t hesitate to ask others to step in.

To make it easier, be specific about what you need. Instead of saying, “I could use some help,” try, “Could you pick up groceries on Thursday?” People often want to help but may not be sure how.

Build a Communication Plan

When multiple family members or friends want updates on your loved one’s condition, repeat conversations can become exhausting. Consider setting up a group chat or using a shared app to communicate updates efficiently. This allows everyone to stay informed without having to replay difficult conversations.

Seek Professional Support

While having friends and family to lean on can be a strong source of comfort, sometimes finding professional support groups and counseling can also help. Professional support can look like talking to a social worker, seeking professional counselling, or even finding formal support groups. 

Find Hospice-Run Support

Hospice care providers are not just for your loved one—they are there for you, too. Many hospice organizations offer counseling services, support groups, and even respite care to help you stay emotionally and physically healthy. Don’t be afraid to reach out to a social worker or counselor within the hospice team for guidance.

At Del Corazon Hospice, we understand the emotional struggles that can come with having a family member in hospice. We offer support groups for friends and family members seeking emotional support during the hospice experience. 

Consider Therapy or Counseling

Caring for a loved one in hospice can stir up many emotions—grief, fear, and guilt. Talking to a licensed therapist or counselor can help you process these feelings in a safe and supportive environment. A therapist can also equip you with coping strategies to handle challenging days. 

Tap Into Community Resources

Connecting with others who are going through—or have gone through—a similar experience can be incredibly validating. By reaching out to community groups such as a caregiver support group or a church community, you can find extra support outside of friends and family. 

Join a Caregiver Support Group

Caregiver support groups provide a space for sharing tips, asking questions, and simply venting on hard days. Many groups meet in person, but there are also online forums like The Caregiver Space and Family Caregiver Alliance that allow you to connect from home.

Explore Faith-Based Support

For those who draw strength from their faith, reaching out to a religious leader or community can be profoundly comforting. Many religious organizations offer pastoral counseling, prayer groups, or even volunteers who can assist with caregiving tasks or errands.

Practice Self-Care Without Guilt

It’s easy to put your own well-being on the back burner when caring for someone in hospice, but self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential. Taking care of your physical and emotional health ensures you remain effective as a caregiver.

Simple actions like taking a walk, setting aside quiet time to read, or practicing deep breathing exercises can rejuvenate your energy and calm your mind. If you feel overwhelmed, try journaling to process your emotions or meditate to center yourself.

Cherishing the Time You Have

Amid the challenges, it’s important to savor the precious moments with your loved one. Hospice care often shifts the focus from cures and treatments to quality of life, creating an opportunity to celebrate love, laughter, and connection one day at a time. Sit together, share stories, and make new memories—even in this final chapter, there is room for joy and closeness.

These moments may not erase the hardship of having a loved one in hospice, but they often become the memories you treasure most.

You Are Not Alone

Navigating hospice care for a loved one is one of the greatest acts of love, but it’s also one of the most complex and emotional journeys you may face. Remember, it’s not a path you need to walk alone. Support is available from friends, family, professionals, and community resources—don’t hesitate to reach for it.

At Del Corazon Hospice, we offer support for those who have a loved one in hospice. If you are considering finding hospice care for a loved one, or are interested in our community’s support group, you can contact us today.